How to Give More During Lent (and Beyond) – Part 2

By Matt DeBall

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We began this month with an introduction post by Marcia Shelter that invited us to 
consider how we can “give more” during Lent—taking a step beyond the traditional trend of “giving something up” for Lent. Two weeks ago, I invited you to do a self-inventory of your time, possessions, and budget to consider what you can put aside or change for Lent that could allow for the capacity to give more. Last week, Timothy Siburg shared a great reflection about how he has taken on something new for Lent this year. This week we will explore how to take practical steps to move forward and give more during Lent.

Taking a path of simplicity and generosity, especially in our world today, is not always an easy task. With many demands (some very important, some not so much) on our time, energy, and resources, it’s easy to get caught up in the ebb and flow of a busy life and miss the opportunity to live in a way that best honors God and shows love to those around us. The season of Lent invites us to intentionally consider all that is happening in our lives and to put some things aside to more fully focus on the work of Jesus through his death and resurrection as well as the work that God continues to do in us and in the world.

A helpful first step toward living a more generous life is considering how you spend or share your time, energy, possessions, and money. For help to do this, feel free to check out the first part of this post. After doing a careful assessment of these aspects of our lives, we can then move forward and make changes to be more generous. Here are a few thoughts to help you consider how to give more:

1) Give more time – Is there a member of your family, faith community, or neighborhood who is in a rough season? Is there a way that you could offer help or simply a listening ear to show God’s love to them? Is there a local charity or community group that does great work and whom could benefit from your service? Is there an initiative at box-18749_1280your church that you are passionate about but have not yet given a try? All of these are questions that can help you share more of your time.

2) Give more money – Have you noticed any purchases like drive-thru coffee, eating out that you could replace with cheaper alternatives for Lent (or longer)? Do you have a phone plan or TV package that is more complex (and expensive) than you need? These cost savings may not amount to significant savings, but every bit we can decrease in our regular expenses allows us the flexibility and peace of mind to be more generous. In cutting down non-essential costs, what ministry of your church or initiative in your community could benefit from your support?

3) Give away or share more possessions – Now is the perfect time for spring cleaning.
Are there any items which you rarely or never use (clothes, tools, non-perishable foods, books, or other lightly worn objects) which you could give to someone in need or share with a local charity? You may also want to consider selling nicer clothes to a second-hand store and donating the money you receive to an organization in your community. Does gratitude-1201945_1280someone
in your neighborhood attend the same church or community events as you? And could carpooling be
a valuable option for both of you? Considering these
ideas may help you become a better steward of what
God has given you.

4) BONUS – Give more of yourself – After minimizing non-essential drains on our time, energy, and money, we not only have more of these items to give, but in general, we have more of ourselves to give. When our schedules
are less full with non-essential fillers, our living spaces
are less cluttered, and our minds are less busy, we can be more fully present in our times of rest (whether alone or with family) as well as in moments of sharing and serving others.

Though making changes can be difficult, it’s remarkable how small adjustments can make a big difference. As you consider how God may be leading you to be more generous, we hope you will feel renewed in this Lenten season and beyond.

About the Author

m-deball-9-2016Matt DeBall is the COMPASS Communications Coordinator for the Ecumenical Stewardship Center. He also serves as Coordinator of Donor Communications for the Church of the Brethren. He has an MDiv from Northern Seminary of Lombard, Illinois and a BA in Communication Arts from Judson University of Elgin, Illinois. He loves running, reading, and napping. He and Chelsea live in Northern Illinois with their Welsh Corgi, Watson, and attend the First Baptist Church of Aurora.

This blog is a component of the Ecumenical Stewardship Center’s COMPASS initiative to engage young adults in conversations about faith and finances. Like what you’ve read? Visit the COMPASS web page, follow us on Twitter, and join the COMPASS community on Facebook.

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How To Give More During Lent (and Beyond) – Part 1

By Matt DeBall

If you’re anything like me, you like to fill daysIMG_2941
as full as possible. Whether or not you carefully estimate how long a task or project will take, you begin the day ready to conquer a mountain (or two or five). Though some may call you ambitious, you’re ready to do your best, and if time runs out, there’s always tomorrow to pick up where you left off.

“This is a wise strategy,” you may think. It allows you to make the best use of your time. It brings results that exceed what you thought was possible. And it even means that you experience satisfaction and accomplishment by the truckload. What could possibly be wrong with this?

Imagine filling a cup to the brim with chocolate milk (you pick: 2%, skim, soy, or almond). Hurray! You’ve made the most of your effort and poured like a pro. You’re certainly going
to enjoy every extra drop of your sweet elixir. But how much more difficult have you made the task of carrying it across the room? Overindulgence aside, filling a glass until it’s full may seem advantageous, but it can present unintended challenges or consequences. Over-filling our lives can have the same results.

But you may be asking, “can’t God still use me even if my life is (too) full?” In short, absolutely, yes! Having a full schedule does not exclude us from being used by God to share love, grace, and kindness with others. Whether we have plenty of spare time or none, are refreshed or tired, God can still work through us to bless other people.

However, what’s most likely to spill out when assembling-a-bicycle-1727903_1280 copyGod tries to use us and we’re full to the brim already—our agenda, or God’s? And are we actually able to go out of our way to help people when we’re too distracted to notice their situation in the first place? Just like trying to quickly assemble anything complex, the more rushed we are, the more likely we are to make a mistake or miss something entirely. It is for this reason that, in order to give more, we must first account for things we can give up. Removing certain things will make room for new possibilities.

The season of Lent invites everyone—including all of us over-achievers—to slow down a bit and reflect on our lives as Christian stewards. Investing some time to assess how we currently use what we possess improves our capacity to give more. After doing a self-inventory this week to consider what you can put aside or change, we will explore next week how to take steps forward and give more.

Here are a few thoughts to help get you started:

1) Consider time. For the next week, take note oclock-2097537_1280 copyf how you spend your time. Is there anything unnecessary that should be reduced or eliminated? Are you allowing enough time to rest (both taking breaks during the day and sleeping at night)? Are you satisfied with how much time is spent with your family and those most important to you? With your faith community? Do you have enough time to do the things you most enjoy or from which you find the most satisfaction? Is there any allotment of your time, subtle or drastic, that prevents you from accomplishing your goals? If you don’t like the answers you have for these questions, consider small changes that will improve these areas.

2) Consider possessions. Take a look around all of the physical spaces in which you reside, work, or play (home, car, office, etc.). Is there anything you rarely (or never) use that you could live without? Do you have too much of anything in particular? Do you have any clutter that could be put away or disposed of? Are there any areas that currently distract you from accomplishing intended tasks within them? De-cluttering literal space can certainly lead to a less busy and distracted mind.

3) Consider your budget. How is your money spent each month? Is there anything unessential that could be reduced or removed? Is there anything important for which you do not currently put aside money for that should be added to our budget? If you have any debt, are you satisfied with your current plan to pay it off in a timely manner? Are you content with how much money is given to your church or favorite non-profit organization? Again, small changes can get you closer to where you want to be.

About the Author

m-deball-9-2016Matt DeBall is the COMPASS Communications Coordinator for the Ecumenical Stewardship Center. He also serves as Coordinator of Donor Communications for the Church of the Brethren. He has an MDiv from Northern Seminary of Lombard, Illinois and a BA in Communication Arts from Judson University of Elgin, Illinois. He loves running, reading, and napping. He and Chelsea live in Northern Illinois with their Welsh Corgi, Watson, and attend the First Baptist Church of Aurora.

This blog is a component of the Ecumenical Stewardship Center’s COMPASS initiative to engage young adults in conversations about faith and finances. Like what you’ve read? Visit the COMPASS web page, follow us on Twitter, and join the COMPASS community on Facebook.

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